feat(trade): WeChat trade-manage push + delay shipping upload

Receive trade_manage_order_settlement to sync confirm-receive/settle;
wait ~65s and retry on 10060001 before upload_shipping_info.

Co-authored-by: Cursor <cursoragent@cursor.com>

server/dukang-api/src/main.ts

@@ -25,7 +25,10 @@ async function bootstrap() {
   app.use(
     json({
       verify: (req, _res, buf) => {
-        if (req.url?.includes('/callbacks/wechat/pay')) {
+        if (
+          req.url?.includes('/callbacks/wechat/pay') ||
+          req.url?.includes('/callbacks/wechat/message')
+        ) {
           (req as { rawBody?: Buffer }).rawBody = buf;
         }
       },